I’m a wife of one and mom of 4. I’m a doula, excessive coffee drinker, clown collector, Oregonian… and owner of some pretty serious PTSD.

I started transparently sharing my family’s journey through some significant struggles on TikTok. Our roller coaster includes SUD, behavioral challenges, severe mental health difficulties, adoption, and a whole bunch more.

I hit a wall when I realized there was more to share, but I couldn’t do it without being anonymous. The issues are too big and the people involved need to be protected. That opened up this idea- so I’m running with it.

If you’re like me- carrying some big family secrets that you just can’t publicly share- let me share them for you. It takes the power away AND educates everyone else that this stuff REALLY DOES HAPPEN. It’s not just in the movies. You can share the secrets HERE and/or find me on TikTok under my secrets account: @Nameless.Family.

I also advocate strongly for the access to mental health care for kids who experienced Oregon’s foster care system. If you’re a parent who adopted a child through Oregon’s foster care system and you’re struggling, you’re welcome to connect HERE.